(May 22, 2023) Richard Winter enquires…
If asked the above genuine question, how would you answer?
Some of us might say: ‘Not too bad’ – with a fragment of truth in our answer. But the asker’s quick rejoinder probably might be ‘So you’re not too good, eh?’
And if they were to hear ‘I’m great, everything’s fantastic!’ they might doubt the veracity of that response.
An apt answer
In reality most of us are learning life lessons, so a more apt answer to the question ‘How are you?’ most probably would be: ‘I’m learning and growing.’
Now there’s nothing to be ashamed of about growing and learning – we all process life at different speeds, and with some different responses. Sometimes we learn quickly, at other times it is slow and possibly downright painful. It could look like three steps forwards and two steps back.
Being a Christian is not like going to a spiritual Disneyland –
- You don’t get every prayer answered your way.
- You don’t always get a miracle when you ask for it.
- But you do get to pray for God’s will to be done!
Life is not always easy and you can wonder does anyone else ever have it like me?